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In response to: ..that you are dating them AND their families??

this subject came up in one of the conversations with me and my pals....a "newbie" to our circle of friends said this:

when you date/marry someone, you aren't just with them, but their whole family!!!!

this was cause for much discussion....cause I truly do NOT agree that someone's sibling OR family memebers chosen path should affect the person that you are interested with!

There were sooooo many biased opinions to this....bowever, I tend to differ with that statement in the sense that if you are with someone, of course you bave to accept their family, may it be "the cleavers" or "the addams family" but that should NOT be the final decision of "if" you should stay with that person

I don't believe that the person being persued should suffer the consequences that others have inflicted upon themselves....

anywho, just wondering how you guys feel about that

would someone's family be the "yay or nay" as to dating someone??? and if so, why???


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Tater: I just read your statement again, and it seems like you are saying you were living off your mother, and now that she is gone, you want help... Maybe it is time for you to grow up and be a man, and what is with the state of mind comment, I have to many questions...not trying to be insensitive..

Nobunaga: Thanks Kelly !

I guess that's what I am feeling too, honestly I don't like to feel this way. You know have doubts. I have always given my all, but this would be the first time that I have this nagging doubt.

In a perfect world, it would be nice to have no doubts at all when we meet that certain someone.

Nobunaga: Ladies, permit me to humbly seek your personal thoughts and advices.

Does falling in love again scares you ?

Tonight, I wonder about those who were in a long term relationship and marriages that has since faltered, did it feel like you could give all your love again without a small doubt ?

BTW: No, I have not found someone yet.

In response to: I do not know if this thread has been on yet So if it has I am sorry but it is okay to be friends with men. I have more guy friends than girlsfriend that are true girlsfriends. and so are my male friends...... but some one I care about does see it that way.......... So help

Nobunaga: Ladies, permit me to humbly seek your personal thoughts and advices.

Does falling in love again scares you ?

Tonight, I wonder about those who were in a long term relationship and marriages that has since faltered, did it feel like you could give all your love again without a small doubt ?

BTW: No, I have not found someone yet.

KHD100: It so sounds like something Brew would do... doesn't it?

stocktonian: yes i am

stocktonian: this world would be a better place if all cultures could get on with each other.

fireliter: Does anyone fins any truth to these description or is this horoscope stuff noting but crap?

HJFinAZ: A few weeks ago I met a lady through some friends. I had only met her and these friends for coffee a couple of times, talked on the phone a couple of times.

The day before Thanksgiving, she had some outpatient surgery. Her girlfriend took her home and left her alone, she was still a little under the weather from being knocked out. It appears she got up to potty and take a pain pill, she took to many and it appears to have caused a heart attack. He roomie found her the next morning and called 911.

Long story short, she did some kind of damage to her right leg and cannot walk on it, she is in a Care Center for rehab, physically therapy. It is 5 minutes from me and I know what it is like to lay in a hospital for days. Mom & I go visit her every morning & evening for a few minutes.

It appears she has "feelings" we have never discussed (she is a very nice and cute lady). Yesterday and frequently several young ladies are at my house, none of them have a true relationship with their fathers. Three were here yesterday afternoon and for dinner, one had her 3 daughters with her.

Last night, I told Cheryl that I was a lucky man, I had 7 women at my dinner table and I was the only male. She said, "The next time I am in a relationship, "I" will get ALL of the attention".. I find this insane jealousy and being very selfish.

Any "thoughts"??

gillyloves69: sssshhhhh don't give the game away !

twinkles1994: His ex wife adopted her so no. It's not making her happy that my ex is allowing our daughter contact with me and trying to re-establish a relationship. He has informed her that whether she likes it or not Anna has 2 moms!

petegozo: Sex to me can be the simple act of penetration or stimulation.It doesn't necessarily have much to do with feelings or caring for the other.

Making love is a little different since you consider your partner's preferences,likes and dislikes and want the other to feel what you feel.
But then again what do I know ?

vinny1967: Sex can be crap, messy, ok, good and great.

Makin Love is always Fandabydozy.

And unfortunately I've experienced them all.

I know which one I'd prefer.